Sunday, July 5, 2026

What Is The Approach To Find The 130,000 Missing Or Dead

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I have been following the many groups of madres buscadoras (groups of women looking for their missing and dead children and spouses).  There are currently 230 groups working in Mexico.  That should give you an idea of how big this problem is. 


How many of you have children or grandchildren who are graduating in the last weeks of June or the beginning of July?  I ask because from Thursday to today (Saturday)  there have been six unrelated kidnappings of graduates on vacation or in their cities.  The situation has become desperate.  Organized crime is looking for younger, healthier, and educated recruits to do their dirty work, sex trafficking, and organ harvesting.

There are 40 people in this photograph holding a picture of their missing family member.  Multiply this picture times 3250, and that gives the magnitude of this tragedy.


Imagine if this were to happen in your family?  I put AI to work regarding the madres buscadoras, and this is what I found.  It is concurrent with my own research, albeit more in-depth.  My issue is that the government's methods for searching and returning bodies or remains, in most cases, have had little to no results.  In fact, the madres buscadoras were invited to work around the area that encompasses the investigation into the kidnapping and death of Nancy Guthrie because they have become very good at finding bodies.

The government conducts field searches, but they operate differently than the collectives of "searching mothers." While families often head into the field motivated by anonymous tips and using their own resources, authorities follow a legal and inter-institutional protocol. The work of the National Search Commission (CNB) and local commissions in the field is structured around the following dynamics: coordinated field searches and use of specialists, unlike families who use improvised tools like "T-rods". Official brigades include archaeologists, forensic anthropologists, forensic experts, and geologists who utilize technology such as drones or ground-penetrating radar. 

Official searches are carried out with the deployment of security forces—such as the National Guard, the Secretariat of National Defense (SEDENA), and local police—to secure the perimeter in high-risk areas.  Often, the CNB and local prosecutor's offices organize field search operations alongside the mothers' collectives, focusing on locations previously mapped out by the families.

Despite the existence of these government brigades, organizations like Amnesty International and media outlets report that institutional capacity is often overwhelmed by the country's forensic crisis. There are currently 72,000 cadavers or parts thereof, sitting in morgues around the country awaiting identification.  Frequently, it is civil collectives that first locate clandestine graves and subsequently notify the government so that the relevant prosecutor's office can arrive to officially recover and secure the human remains. 

The Guardia Nacional and the Mexican Army (SEDENA) act primarily as a militarized security shield for local forensic experts and state prosecutors during exhumations. For example, in massive recent joint sweeps by State Prosecutors and the Guardia Nacional in northern regions like Chihuahua, security forces successfully protected forensic teams extracting 73 bodies from clandestine graves in a single month. The government has prioritized creating structural forensic hubs. They have completed specialized regional centers for human identification and temporary body storage units in heavily impacted states like Tamaulipas, Jalisco, Sinaloa, and Coahuila to process the high volume of human remains recovered during Guardia-escorted operations.  Independent monitoring platforms like the Plataforma Ciudadana de Fosas(mass graves) and human rights entities like Amnesty International highlight serious discrepancies in the government's claimed results. 

While state-level prosecutors report thousands of graves, federal tracking often undercounts them. Civil tracking platforms frequently note that the government's official numbers are much lower than the actual totals published daily by independent media and civilian searchers. Most of the graves officially "recovered" under the protection of the Guardia Nacional were actually first discovered and physically excavated by the mothers' collectives. Family organizations heavily criticize the state for taking statistical credit for discoveries that civilians achieved through their own dangerous fieldwork.

As of today, over 30 madres buscadoras and other participants have been murdered by organized crime upon discovery of mass graves.  This issue is not being taken seriously.  Comments include the comparative aspect of the issue.  For example, someone will quote the high number of missing persons in the U.S., not knowing that 85 to 91% of those missing are actually found.  Most of those cases are family-related, where one spouse takes off with the child or a runaway case.

How does this affect you?  Probably not much at all.  Why is it so important to all of us?  Because as RVers, tourists, and expats, we are supporting a country and a regime that has done little to nothing to end the tragedy.  I find it interesting that some tourists who regularly visit Mexico have decided to make the trip by air to avoid travel through the U.S. during the North American political conflict.  I guess that doesn't compare or measure up to the war that is being waged in Mexico, including the disappearance of our children.  I'm not pointing fingers but solely making a point of how desperate the situation has become and how little attention it is receiving from Canada, the U.S., and the United Nations.

Send letters or emails to your embassy and to Mexican consulates, letting them know how you may feel about this.


Sunday, June 28, 2026

And We Wonder Why Things Are The Way They Are

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We made it back home safely.  The Monterrey airport was packed with fans arriving to see the World Cup.  Via television interviews and news reports, they are very happy to see Mexico for the first time.  The Japanese players are getting the red carpet treatment.  I went to HEB yesterday to pick up a few things, and as I left the parking lot, I saw traffic heading south.  There was a line of more than 25 police vehicles with lights and sirens.  They were escorting the team in buses to the Rayados camp for practice sessions.  Quite the show.  

I have been hearing how food prices are increasing and I may have posted some charts over the last year.  When I started to write this post I thought that I should look up the charts for the last few years or whatever was available on the internet.

Meat, proteins, and dairy: Vegetable oil, canned tuna, beef, pork, chicken, eggs, milk, and canned sardines. 

Fruits and vegetables: White onion, jalapeƱo pepper, tomato, lime/lemon, apple, orange, potato, and banana. 

Grains, seeds, and others: Rice, standard sugar, dried beans, corn flour, sliced ​​bread, pasta, and corn tortillas.


One item not on the list that is always controversial is eggs.  Looking back through reports, a flat (30 pieces) still hovers around 78 pesos.  I have seen it as low as 55 pesos, but that would require a drive to downtown Monterrey, pay for parking, and then fight the crowds.  Juan's SIL goes every week but she also purchases fruit and supplies for her daughter's waffle smoothie shop.   She started from her house and has had her store for two years.  Growing fast and now she does events. 

Things are the way they are because people are always looking for the easy route to get things done.  While we were in San Antonio, the storms in Monterrey took down the grid.  In some places, it has been two weeks and people in the metro area still do not have electricity.  In our case, we could see via the cameras at home that the power was out.  We contacted a neighbor who confirmed it was the street, not just our house.  We attempted to place a report but we couldn't dial from the U.S.   


Two days later, the power was back on, but I knew we had lost everything in our refrigerator.  Once home, we asked the worker what had happened and how they got the power back on.  One of our neighbors is the owner/CEO of a plastics company.  He had a party that day and sent his worker to the CFE office in our town to pay them 1500 pesos to come immediately to remedy the situation.  And they did!  Corruption is so embedded in the culture and taught to children who carry it through life.  Why wait?  Why worry?  Why fight the bureaucracy?


We are also battling the biometric registration of cell phones.  For those of you who are not aware, if you don't have a monthly paid plan and you are not registered biometrically, you will lose your service.  Paid plans that are older and were not registered, meeting all the requirements, will also be suspended.  It's been a year, and the deadline is in the next four days.  Now, they have extended it by using the last digit of your cell number.

Your specific deadline depends on the last digit of your telephone number
  • Ending in 0: August 15
  • Ending in 1: August 31
  • Ending in 2: September 15
  • Ending in 3: September 30
  • Ending in 4: October 15
  • Ending in 5: October 31
  • Ending in 6: November 15
  • Ending in 7: November 30
  • Ending in 8: December 15
  • Ending in 9: December 31
Some people have filed a class action lawsuit, individual stays of protection, and many say they will just wait and see.  There are 160 million cellphones most of which are pay as you go.  I can't imagine this will take place but we will still have service at home and can use Whatsapp.  

Stayed tuned for more on this.  We are also nearing the deadline for the extradition of the Sinaloan governor and his gang of nine.  Now according to the NYT, AMLo is next on the list as Mayo Zambada has squealed.  




 

Wednesday, June 17, 2026

I'm Slowly Losing My Identity - Rv Dealers (Ughh)

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This trip didn't start out so well.  I had made all the reservations in advance: air, hotel, rental car, and RV dealer appointments.  No issues were getting to the airport or parking the car.  Check-in and immigration were smooth.  The flight was only 40 minutes, and it beat driving in the Mexico/Texas heat for eight hours.  U.S. immigration was a breeze, and we were both out in less than a minute.  There is nothing in the system that says I live in another country.  They always say, "welcome home".   You would think that social security and border crossings, along with immigration, talked to each other.

Then reality set in.  We arrived at the car rental counter all smiles.  I pulled out our reservation, my passport, and my driver's license.  She looked at me and said, "Your passport and driver's license don't match.  The new rule, the Real ID Act, is in full force.  My passport is U.S. and my driver's license is Mexican.  No match, no rental car.  She cancelled the reservation and refunded my money.  All the car rentals said the same.  We had to sit down and make a new reservation with another company under Juan's name.  Why?  His Mexican passport and driver's license match.  We found a very nice Avis agent who is from Mexico (30 years ago) and who understood the situation.  She gave us a very good deal.  The line behind us was long, but she didn't want to stop chatting.  I asked about the cost for an additional driver, and she said that as spouses, there was no charge.

This is the model we seem to like the best.  It's roomy for 16ft, has two twin beds or king, and makes into great sofas for daytime use.  It has a full-size fridge, and a smaller air conditioner.  It weighs less than 2800 lbs.  Perfect for us.





We've been out every day checking dealers around San Antonio.  I should have retired here in the U.S. and become an RV salesman.  These guys know nothing.  The small units we are looking at mostly have a small 5000 BTU window air conditioner in a cabinet that works much better than roof air.  All the ones that do have roof air have a 13.5 BTU air conditioner, the same one they slap on all RVs from 12ft to 32 ft or more.  I asked a salesman, and he said, "Oh, they stopped doing the small air conditioner years ago".  Oh really!  I showed him how the Murphy bed worked in one RV, and that the sofa conversion had built-in recliners.  He didn't know.  Out of five dealer visits, we had one that said, "I used to work for the phone company, and after 30 years, I got tired of climbing poles.  I've been selling RVs for three months, and I have learned more from you in the last hour than my company".    And believe me, I am no expert.  I told one old fart he needed to get out of the office and go sit in the RVs and check them out, see how all the bells and whistles work.  This is a highly unregulated business.

We have run into a hitch in the works.  I am no longer a U.S. resident.  When I went to renew my Texas driver's license, I had no proof of residence, which requires a passport, an official Texas ID card, a physical address (our Laredo mailbox doesn't count and the feds are on to mailbox companies), a utility bill, and bank statements that match.  I was greatly concerned about how I would purchase and plate an RV in Texas.  That's our plan to leave it in a Laredo storage and use it in the U.S.  Leave it up to companies that want to sell something.  Three of the dealers said to pay cash, they will issue the physical plates and send the documents to the mailbox, leaving the state paperwork blank with just my social security number.  Now, can we use a Mexican-plate tow vehicle with a U.S.-plated travel trailer?  That's up next.


We had a fun day with our friend Giovanna.  We picked her up and went to Costco.  We buy our vitamins there.  Costco Mexico doesn't sell vitamin C.  In fact, good luck finding high-dose, high-volume packs of vitamin C in Mexico.  At GNC they sell the 1000mg tablets but charge a fortune.  Smaller, expensive bottles can be had at pharmacies, including Similares, but expensive as well.  We had a small brunch at Costco, walking around and sampling foods.  She wasn't that familiar with RVs and was fascinated with one of the visits we made.  

We still have a couple more visits this week, but we have pretty much made a decision on what we would like to buy.  


Saturday, June 13, 2026

Part One Of The Project Complete - Now On To Part Two

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It takes us quite a bit of time to make decisions.  We've lost out on many deals by doing our due diligence but we feel it was worth the wait.  If we lose the deal, well, there will always be another one.  

The Durango continues to run well, but at 20 years old, I wouldn't want a breakdown in the middle of nowhere.  It is a hard sell as well because of the 500,000 kms on the odometer.   Apart from that, it has the largest Chrysler engine for an SUV.  With gas prices in Mexico above $5 US a gallon, it is not a favorite.  We need to lower the price; I propose $ 3,000 US.

We searched for six months for a new SUV and finally found one we like.  It is a 2022 VW Teramont (Atlas in the U.S.) with a 3.6L V6 engine and tows just over 5000 lbs.  Enough for a very small travel trailer.  Mileage is 67,000 km.


The original owners have a small child.  The wife uses the SUV as a mom's soccer car (if that's a good description).  It's not at home yet.  We will pick it up on the 22nd.  It was in for its maintenance at the dealer.  They did a 42-point inspection.   We took it to another VW dealer who did a more intense inspection.  We found some very minor things we used as negotiation; a cracked mirror shell, and we want new tires.  The engine is in superb shape with excellent compression on all cylinders. It has a factory tow package that includes a Class III hitch, wiring harness with seven-pin connector, enhanced transmission and cooling package, along with a trailer sway control.  


We leave tomorrow for San Antonio on Viva Aerobus.  Early morning flight, we pick up a car and head for the hotel.  I have arranged visits with five different RV dealers in the area to look at trailers that will fit our needs.  I am still trying to figure out the license and plates for the trailer.  Neither one of us is a U.S. (state) resident anymore and Texas is very strict about that.  South Dakota may or may not work out as a nomad resident state not having a current U.S. driver's license.
 
The Monterrey airport has not had any incidences so far.  No groups have blocked the roads and the parking says they have room and haven't experienced anything out of the norm.  However, the first World Cup game in Monterrey starts tomorrow and that could be reason enough for protesters to block highways around Monterrey and the airport.  

Saturday, June 6, 2026

The Truth Isn't Always Pleasant

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A lot is happening right now, and we are still wrapping up a few loose ends from our Mexico City trip. At the same time, we have been planning a trip to Texas to look for a new travel trailer. We want something small, but highly functional for our travels around the U.S.
Logistically, getting to San Antonio was our main hurdle. To solve this, we decided to fly and rent a car. Crossing the border itself won't be an issue; Juan has everything he needs, including his Mexican passport, U.S. travel visa, and six months' worth of pension and bank statements. Flying also completely eliminates our biggest worry: driving around small Texas towns with Mexican license plates, which could attract unwanted attention from highway patrol or immigration checkpoints.
We booked a centrally located hotel that includes a full breakfast and a manager's happy hour with snacks, wine, and beer. It feels like we are finally biting the bullet—if we don't just do it, it will never get done.
Since June is Pride Month, the topic has been on our minds, though we don't know much about it. We are fairly conservative and prefer to keep to ourselves. We have certainly faced our share of discrimination over the years, though we don't equate it to the discrimination people face based on color, race, religion, or disability. Many people have tried to school us over the years, claiming that the discrimination we experience is "self-inflicted," saying, "Well, it is your choice".  
I'm glad to think that heterosexuals made such a great choice! We aren't paranoid, nor do we really care what people say. Even though our families are very accepting, they still introduce us as a "friend of the family." Other times, people will introduce us and explicitly add, "they're gay." It always makes us laugh to think about reversing it—imagine introducing our friends Harold and Maude (what a great movie!) and adding, "and they’re straight." It sounds absurd, doesn't it?
We notice this dynamic most when we are on the road. People see our Mexico plates, get curious about our travels, and strike up a great conversation. But the moment we use the pronoun “we,” they often literally turn around and walk off.
Well, we are used to it by now. We just count our blessings and keep things in perspective. Imagine being Black, gay, Jewish, disabled, and LGBTQ? Now that would be a real humdinger, wouldn't it?  In the end, we find it amusing.
A follow-up on our subway experience in Mexico City.  Here are a few pictures of what we encountered.  



They've made a mess and spent a fortune, including the purchase of wall sconces in some stations.  Really?


If you don't know, major forces are doing what they can to stop the World Cup in Mexico.  Agro groups with their tractors, semidrivers with their trailers, and thousands of teachers are set to block airports.  It is getting pretty fierce as these groups are retaliating against the police and Guardia Nacional.  
In the case of Monterrey, our illustrious state governor had promised many projects that would facilitate the aficionados flocking to the city.  The new metro line to the airport, city parks, a new water park, public transport direct to the stadium, including a monorail valued at 1 billion USD, all of which are not going to be completed by this week.  A tragic waste of public funds and use of tax pesos.  Getting to the airport now is complete chaos, and with the supposed blockades by protesters,s we may have chosen a not-so-good time to go on our travel trailer hunt.


Going back to Tlateloco, I forgot one important point about the location.  The Massacre of 196,8 where government troops and military entered the square with army tanks.  They rolled into the square via a major overpass, plowing under parts of the ruins which had been excavated and researched.  The Mexican government's official death toll was 32.  However, families have documents showing up to 300 killed.  

The causes were the same around the world at the time.  In the U.S., it was the Ohio State killings.  In Mexico, students began gathering and rioting as they felt the Mexican Revolution had never fulfilled its purpose of socialist democracy.  Levels of poverty were at an all-time high, roughly 72%.  
The summer Olympic Games were to take place that year.  Just months before, ex-president Diaz Ordaz gave the order to put an end to it and clear the streets of squatters and demonstrators.  In classified and declassified documents, Diaz Ordaz gave the order to kill if necessary.  You can see the apartment buildings that were built to make way for a new era of socialism, but to really clean up the squalor that had been built around Tlalteloco.  Soldiers took to the roofs and shot down on the crowds. 
While in Mexico City, we watched a movie, Rojo Amanecer, a Mexican movie that details the life of a family living in one of the buildings.  Their teenagers were caught by the secret police, beaten, and the whole family was killed.  
Are we in for another round with the World Cup in the next couple of weeks?   

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Saturday, May 30, 2026

Three Days, 600 State Troops And Police, They Wouldn't Let Us In

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Before I get into the trip to the Zocalo, I want to go back a bit to the ruins at Tlateloco.  We returned to find a portion that had been closed when we went. It is by appointment only.  It is called the Caja de Agua.  

The Caja de Agua was a two-tank water cistern system built at the base of the convent in 1536.  It brought water to the area for use by the indigenous people, the clerics, and the monks.  It had a settling tank where the incoming water would settle.  The fresh water on top would pass to the "potable" tank.  The water source came from three areas: Azcapotzalco, Tacuba, and Chapultepec.  The water system was made from clay pipe, some from the prehispanic period.  

The day we went, they told us we could only enter by appointment and that there was a tour set for the students from the American School in Puerto Vallarta.  We pretty much begged, saying we were leaving the next day.  After a few phone calls, the tour guides agreed to let us join the school group.  The students were not interested, and the teacher cut the tour short.  The two archaeologist guides were very interested in showing us around.  Wow, a private tour.  




This drawing depicts Ahuizotl, the god and protector of Tlaloc, the god of water.  It is an otter-type animal and has a hand on the end of the tail.  


Around the perimeter are pieces of the later mural or moulding that have a 16th-century style.   Because the walls collapsed over the centuries, the pieces fell to the bottom and sides of the crumbling walls.


I was wrong in stating that the Amantes de Tlateloco were not there.  On the way out of the tour, we walked through the ruins, and we asked about the lovers.  At that moment, one of the guides said, "Look down," and there it was.  


We attempted to visit the Zocalo and the cathedral on three occasions.  Each time, we were met by blockades on 12 different avenues.   Teachers have been striking for months and are now planning marches against the National Palace.  They have camped out on the streets for over six months and have created chaos for all around them, mostly those who rely on the streets for the delivery of goods, including taxis.  

This is just one street.  The teachers are taking turns living there.  They cook, clean, and do their laundry as well.


The national palace was blocked off and barricaded.


On the third attempt, or our last day in Mexico City, Juan decided he would find a way in.  We begged, pleaded, and tried at every possible street entrance to no avail.  We finally convinced one policeman that we were just tourists on our last day and would go directly to the cathedral.  We got past the blockade and acted as if we were going to a jewellery store on the Zocalo perimeter.  We then passed through a construction site and made our way into a side entrance of the cathedral.   We have been there many times, but each time is something new.  This trip, we were able to take a short tour of the organ room, which is situated in the middle front of the cathedral.







The construction of the cathedral took over 240 years, beginning in 1573.  It is the largest and oldest cathedral in all of Latin America.  The site was almost abandoned in the 1600s due to a massive flood.  It was completed in 1813.  A fire consumed a great part of the organ room in 1967.  The organ room contains twin organs with pipes which were restored to near original condition. 

The cabinets that house the organs measure 52ft by 31 ft.  There are 3350 metal organ pipes.  


Two rows of seats determine which row the choir members will sit.  The ones with permanent positions sit up above, and the new members below.  Above and around the choir seats are wood-carved sculptures of Christian saints, apostles and bishops.






Overall, it was a great week with furkid time.  The cat was really a lover and would sit on our laps whenever we were home.  I think she doesn't get a lot of personal attention.  


I'm a realist and not an optimist, so I don't think we'll be going back soon.  The city is changing, and the neighbourhoods are in slow decay.  We were in a building that took up one city block, 7 floors, with 300 apartments.  The noise from the streets reverberates between the buildings, and everyone has a dog, so barking is constant.  Most of the places we have stayed in the past have dual or triple-pane windows, which block out the sound.  This building didn't.  

The biggest enemy you'll face in Mexico City neighbourhoods is dog poop everywhere.  Our building has signs that ask you not to let your dog pee on the walls.  All of them do, and a cleaning lady is out there all week scrubbing the walls.  

After our first day, we found out that all public transport is free for those over 65 if you are a Mexican or a permanent resident.  That was a good thing.  We needed to show our INAPAM (Instituto Nacional de las Personas Adultos Mayores) cards to get on at no charge.  

Except for tourist areas and museums, the city is overcrowded, difficult to walk in, and the sidewalks are in deplorable condition.   Trash looms on every corner in large piles.  Street people empty the trash bags and take off with the bags.  A lot of old furniture and old cars line the streets.  

It's worth the visit along major avenues such as Reforma, Eje Central, the Zocalo and upper-scale neighbourhoods; Roma, Condesa, NĆ”poles and the ultra-rich areas for a peek at how Mexico's wealthy live.  

Next up is our trip to Texas.  I'm not sure if we'll drive or fly like last year.  I have several rv dealers to visit on our search for a small travel trailer.  Nothing definite yet, just checking.